First of all, it’s not creepy to date older people, whether it’s the guy that’s older or the lady that’s older. So far as the two like each other and are willing to work things out between them, it’s none of anyone’s business.
With that being said, it isn’t easy dating someone who is over 10-15 years (or even more) older than you. Here are some challenges you would face.
- Society won’t shut up!
They seem to think their opinions matter. You’ll be the topic of discussion most of the time. There will be strange looks and hurtful comments. People will start wondering if you’re a gold digger or if the woman is older, they’ll call her all sorts of names including “arengaa” in Twi.